WHAT YOU HAVE NOT GIVEN YOURSELF

Have you given yourself everything you want?

No, not waiting for someone to give it to you. No expecting that the situation will change and you will get what you need.

The act of giving to yourself is separate from that.

That is very simple. What are the things you want and you do not have? Name them.

If you do not have something that you want, you have not given that to yourself. That is what it all comes down to.

There are two options. One is trying to figure out what causes the not giving. Long and not necessarily productive. Option two is to by-pass the analysis and just start giving to yourself what you are lacking.

No, that is not hard. No, you do not need anything to start doing that. Just develop a habit of giving yourself what you want and need.

Deciding on what you need is what needs to happen first. How well do you know yourself and your needs? You don’t? Then start learning who you are and what you need, what you are lacking.

Sometimes happiness is what you do not have. As simple as that. Then start having it.
Start anywhere. Start from where you are. No perfection is needed. No conditions are necessary. Give it to yourself.